I did Kino escalation, had her laughing practically the whole time, stayed confident, was playful, negged in a playful way, didn't respond emotionally to certain jokish insults. And I messaged her on Facebook. I've known her since we were kids by the way. Like 4. So she's comfortable with me and trust me. We both think we are funny & she's ok with me smacking her butt even though she has a boyfriend. It went like this. Idk if I should think it's because she has a boyfriend or because or if it's an interest thing with her.

Me: "Today was fun, we gotta have another day like this "

Her: "Hahaha, next time, don't hump me, or grab any part of me. Hahaha"

Me: "Ok"

Her: " "

I didn't respond to her after that. Ehh I don't really care it's just confusing sometimes. I can do all of these things like DHV and social status, have girls all over me in front of a HB, upgrade my style. But it doesn't cut it. ;p what do you guys think?

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Hey Solrac,

Just my opinion on the matter but here goes...

It sounded good (kino, flirting, etc) right up to the Facebook message. 2 things: Your response of 'ok' was very blunt and just killed the conversation. But mainly, I don't understand why you sent the message at all? I've found that girls with boyfriends can be cagey when it comes to texting and messaging as they are not in proximity with you; the sexual connection won't be as strong and they can begin to feel guilty. They may be also be worried about their other half finding the message, and you can be sure that would ruin your chances. But even if she didn't have a boyfriend, the message seemed to lack purpose. You had fun, but you didn't schedule another meet or anything. I know things may be different with you knowing this girl for such a long time, but personally I try to minimise the amount of messages that don't have a purpose of meeting up in person - there's only so much progress you can make without being face to face.

Just my thoughts, hope they help...

Deebo

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Well Idk I just kind of felt like she didn't want it after that message so I was just felt like "Screw it then" and said "Ok" and just let her respond and left it there. But she meets at my house most of the time so I didn't really have to schedule anything, she ask to hang out/come over to my house when she's waiting on her mom to pick her up (We're adolescent's) etc. Her boyfriend does live around in my area not too far but I doubt that means anything I mean he's probably busy or being somewhere or she has to be in our neighborhood for when her mom picks her up because her dads lives down the street from me.

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