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PostPosted: Wed Apr 17, 2013 6:37 pm 
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Hey,

I had this girl I hooked up with just got out a relationship. Hung out a couple times but she wasn't ready to be more. I said ok and moved on but she begged me to stay friends. So now I don't really care I ask her to chill sometimes with groups knowing she is going to not go. She answers when I text but all this I really wanna be friends is superficial .

I've been ignoring her but eventually it will fade. Do I call her out I'd say no.

At the End of the day not every girl has to be mine but she seemed cool to chill with.


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PostPosted: Wed Apr 17, 2013 6:54 pm 
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Use her as a pivot if you're cool with her making out with other guy's in front of you.

If not, cut her loose and don't be friends.


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PostPosted: Wed Apr 17, 2013 6:59 pm 
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Pivot I'm cool. It's not like I'm emotionally involved big time . Just wanted to take her out but she just got out of a relationship. I get it, it was too much . Then she really wanted to be friends message after message. So now what .


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PostPosted: Wed Apr 17, 2013 7:06 pm 
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Just say you don't want to be friends but low commitment fuck buddies instead

"call me when you're horny" etc.


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PostPosted: Wed Apr 17, 2013 7:11 pm 
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She isn't interested and either am I. I'm cool with dating her and if not let's be friends. I got others to be fwbs with. My issue is she really wanted to be friends but now doesn't act like it


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PostPosted: Wed Apr 17, 2013 7:55 pm 
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Right. So you want to be friends with her, she agreed, but then doesn't act like a friend.

I'd say move on bro. You can't force the friendship. Remember this is a pickup forum, not how to make friends...


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PostPosted: Wed Apr 17, 2013 7:59 pm 
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Lol true. Well I was trying to game her for the long run


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