This girl and I, we've known for 2 months. And last friday I finally got in bed with her. But we didn't have sex yet we just watched a movie instead. We're more like downtown buddy, not like daily friends. The only times I get to see her are Friday and Saturday. Last friday in her bed, I woke up earlier than her and wrote her a note "have a good day". The next day, I met her again at the bar with my and her buddies around. At the end of the night, I, again, got a chance to get invited to her house but this time she was too drunk that she just layed on the bed soon as she gets there. I knew she wanted to just sleep but to break the friendzone, I decided to take a lil risk and be a creep because last night I didn't do any sexual physical contact with her even if we were in the same bed. So I talked to her and asked if she needed a "cuddy-buddy" and at the same time, tried to snuggle her from the back. She seemed surprised and said something I didn't understand. (She didn't decline but she gave me this sign that 'I'm not down'). I knew it wouldn't go well but I was kinda upset and told her "you confuse me." (meaning that, sometimes she seems to like me but then she rejects me like that). And pat her softly and left the house and went home. And here I am, that was 3 days ago now I'm thinking what should I do next?

Most important questions I have now is

1. should I text her today or during the weekdays? (I've never texted her during the weekdays)(she's busy at work; M T W TH)

2. Next time I meet her (possibly will be this friday) what kind of action should I take? more specifically: should I be a creeper in a funny way? or try to act like a romantic nice gentleman guy? (I know this that being gentleman too much would cause get me into friendzone.


Any advices?

Don't you dare tell me just be who you are. Being myself means getting into friendzone with a girl. I need a physical exercise with her, na mean?

Give her space and time. During that break, learn what you did wrong, and next time, don't repeat the same mistakes.

I already texted her 20min ago with a humor, hopefully she gets it. Now please somebody answer me the question #2. Where da luv guru at

Sounds like your in the friend-zone.

Biggest mistake you made was you asked her permission to do something, secondly the question was to be her "cuddy buddy". Buddy = Friend = Friend Zone. You cannot get any more AFC than that.

Weak men ask, real men take action.

Let me guess, your next move was going to be "Can I kiss you?" - If I ever overhear a guy ask this question I think I might puke.

She was too drunk and she was about to fall asleep. her eyes was closed. It could've been a rape if I took action there

In which case you either analyse why you didnt escalate properly in the hours beforehand or you wait for a better opportunity

she likes you for sure, but you are not doing the right thing, never ask. just do it

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