Okay guys this post is a bit of a continuation of another post I had of how I got into the friendzone with this girl i will paste it now so you have some background info.


"Hey guys I need some help.

Here is my situation, I met this girl at a party and long story short things got to the point where we exchanged numbers had a good time etc. After a few weeks of talking she had been going through all sorts of issues with her ex boyfriend and she had ended things for what seemed to be forever. After that night where she ended it with him I went to her house and things got physical fast, I didnt seal the deal as she stopped me for some sort of self respect reasons etc.

My problem is this after a couple more weeks of talking and us being physical with kissing. She suddenly said she didnt want us to do that right now because she was overwhelmed with it because her breakup was pretty rough. She said she would tell me when shes ready to be physical and i just said lets be friends for now without the intimacy. I did that on purpose btw I didnt feel like saying its either physical or im gone i felt i was in a better position this way........"


So heres is the situation now, i backed off on being the first to text or always carry a conversation and made it clear i was talking to other girls. She then came to me after a few days or so and she was more of the aggressor and things seemed to be more sexual. She agreed to come to my house for a 1 on 1 night which she didn't want to do before, when she came over things were great we cuddled etc but when i went to kiss her she said she couldn't because A) i promised i would wait until she was ready to and B) her ex bf situation she still felt bad because of some anger issues left over from the breakup. Here's the thing she said she would make a change and promised next time we were together she would be okay with kissing and all of that, do I push for another get together with her? or wait a while then ask, or let her ask? things have been pretty good since that night in regards to conversations and sexual tension through texts which doesn't say too much i suppose. Any and all advice is awesome thanks again.

If they aint talking pussy i dont hear them hoes - Meek Mill circa 2012

Well if your texting her consistently i would text her and ask her to come by then escalate physically if she does. I would go with a lot of kissing and foreplay before taking off her clothes. Make her beg for the D.

If she doesn't come over then i would forget her and move on. Maybe she will hit you up when she wants some.