Hey guys. Surprised I didn't find the answer to this during a search on here. My questions are simple. If you are looking for something casual and the girl does not mention what she wants in the beginning, do you tell her what your intentions are straight away or do you wait until she brings it up? On the other hand, if you are looking for something serious, same question, do you tell her right away or do you wait until she brings it up? Keep in mind this all applies to whether or not the girl specifies what she wants right from the start (like in an online dating profile). Like if she says she wants something casual and you do not, hoping to get her to change her mind or if she says she wants something serious right from the beginning and you do not. It is commonly said that girls do not really know what they want. For example, if she insists she wants only a serious relationship, she may change her mind if she meets a guy who does not want that. Also, it's pretty obvious girls will always say they only want something serious because of the whole slut thing. Also, if you say you want something casual right from the beginning she may start thinking to her self the whole slut thing and decline only because of that. Thank you.

If you want something casual, wait until you have sex with her and then suggest to be fuck buddies or friends with benefits. It's pretty important to be able to figure out what girls want from the beginning though. Some girls want to meet a guy to marry, some want to a boyfriend, a fuckbuddy, etc.. If you see that you can fit and want to fit under that, continue to game her until you get what you are looking for. You can always catch some information about what is looking for when you are talking to her. Also, be aware of her behavior. A serious girl acts much differently than a girl who is flirting with every guy she sees.

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