Ok so heres the situation.

One of the girls (HB8) i work with randomly became alot more touchy with me the other day, today she was real touchy and even slapped my ass when i wasnt looking. She is also real enthusiastic and interested of late when we talk. To put the icing on the cake she invited me down to her place 2nite to chill.

Now heres the reasons i might be doubting that this is too good to be true.

1. She also invited a few other people down 2nite, one of which is a girl that i was gaming at work and everyone new about, including HB8.

2. I havnt really flirted with HB8 a whole lot, treated her like more of a mate.

So im not sure if shes just being kind or is intersted in exiting the friend zone and taking things futher.

All replys valued!

Cheers guys, Pie Man

Girl invites you to her place, (drink involved?), and you think it's too good to be true?

If she's been really playful and touchy with you lately, then the only way you can fuck this up is if you don't start getting playful back. I would say her slapping you on the ass is a pretty damn certain IOI! Go for it, start out funny and cool and move on to being flirtatious with her tonight if you can, and do touchy kino stuff, and try your best to escalate it to get hot and heavy with her. You gotta for the kiss close at -LEAST-, if she knocks you back don't sweat it, but you have to go for it. That's all there is to it really. If you don't you'll just become weird friends.

The reason I ask if there's alcohol involved is because if there is, it gives her a convenient excuse to let you 'win her over'.

Good luck !

Fark yeah i love this forum! Sweet advice dude i was thinking the same thing, run a bit of game on her, kino the absolute shit out of her and if she seems into it all go for the kiss close at the least! Also i know she likes to have a wine at night time, not sure how much though.

NOW I HAVE ANOTHER PROBLEM THOUGH! Because I'm such useless fucking chump change , i didn't ask her for her mob number so i could find out exactly where she lives (She only gave me the name of the complex, but there's like 30 different apartments in the damn complex and i have no idea what number she is) the reason i didn't ask (EVEN THOUGH I SHOULD HAVE) is were friends on FB so i thought id just message her on there and get the full address. Well i did that 3 hrs ago now and still no response, she is known not to use FB that often though.

Ok so i now have 2 options!

1. I have mutual friends that are currently online on FB, who i could get HB8's mob number off and text her to find out where she lives? I kind of feel like this would be a desperate AFC move but please correct me if im wrong!

2. Just leave it as it is and next time i see her, which will probably be at work 2moro, let her know that i sent her a message on FB asking for her address but she never responded?

All reply's appreciated!

Cheers Pie Man

If it sounds to good to be true , it sometimes is.

I will give a few possibilities of what is going on but I could be wrong.

She has started a second job or is trying to gain popularity and recruiting people to parties will make her some extra money or social status.

She likes you but doesn't know you well enough and she wants others to be there.

The first 2 are probably the root of what is going on with her but you don't describe enough details

Definitely not either and ill explain why in more details . I currently work on a mountain in the snow, ive worked with HB8 for the past 4 months and our season finishes up in 2 weeks, then everyone usually goes there separate ways onto the next adventure, so it wouldn't really make sense for either of those things. As i explained before i treated her like a mate before this so she should know me well enough now after 4 months, ya'll mean?

Cheers for the response anyways

Pie Man

The woman has an agenda. Women don't just slap guys on the ass; if you think that's normal you have a ways to go.

Moreover, the fact that she is slapping you on the ass should bother you. I'll be damned if a woman just slaps my ass. It's a sign of no respect.

She wants you there to make the guy she really likes jealous. Or even sadder, she just wants another warm body at her party.

Get back to us.

Just wanted to give yous a reply, she messaged me around 11:30pm that night invitiing me down, i responded with "if i come down im going to have to stay the night" to which she responded "your welcome to stay but youll be sleeping on the couch" i wrote back "i dont sleep on couches only in beds" she just wrote "hahahaha" then went offline.

So i didnt end up going down to hers, main reason being i didnt know exactly where she lived. After this i didnt see her or hear from her for about a week and when i eventually did and tried to escalate, nothing came of it and it was like we were before just mate So i didnt hook in with her guys.

Apologise for the shit reply

yea your, "I'm gonna have to stay the night and sleep in a bed" was a poor strategy.