So I've been seeing this girl for about 5 months, not exclusively, but I've done stuff with other girls discretely whilst we've been involved (I'm not sure if she's been doing the same with other guys, but haven't asked because I've never felt like it was my business as we're not currently in a relationship).. I went on tour about a week ago to Spain with the University, and just before I left she said 'don't get too many STIs'.. And that was it, sort of permitting me (in my mind, at least) to have fun but to be careful.

I slept with two girls on tour, and decided that I was always going to tell her the truth if she asked me. Yesterday, she decided to ask me.. During a time where we had no clothes on and were about to have sex!.. (This was the first time I'd seen her since coming back from tour). She asked me if I'd slept with someone on tour, to which I replied 'yes'. After that she got really put off and said she didn't feel like sleeping with me as it bothered her that I'd been with someone else. I totally understood this, and I apologised to her for making her feel that way (even though I shouldn't really have had to). I explained to her that I wish she'd have asked me not to sleep with anyone else on tour and I would have been loyal (this is true, as I genuinely like this girl and have been waiting for a long while for her to say that she likes me too, but she's not a serious person and we always just end up joking around).

After this, we made out for a while and stuff.. But no sex. I then drove her home, gave ger a kiss goodbye and we agreed to meet in a few days time, back when we both return to University. Everything honestly seemed fine.

This was a few days ago now, and she hasn't replied to any of my texts or made any contact with me. I think its fairly obvious that she's pissed at me. I genuinely like this girl and want to be in a relationship with her. I can understand how she is feeling as I would probably feel the same way if it was the other way round. I've stopped messaging her as I don't want to creep her out by coming across as a needy freak.. But how should I approach/interpret this situation?

Thanks in advance!

If it was the other way around, SHE would have lied her ass off!

I had my FWB ask me (naked time of course lol) "Do you sleep with a LOT of girls?"

I replied simply "no" as I feel I should be sleeping with MORE, so I then felt justified!

She did not press further. She was only justifying sleeping with you again and WANTED to hear "no".

Or, "Stop asking such nonsense!"

You said yes and instantly flipped on her ASD button.

Freezing her out will likely do better than anything, it will either fix it or it won't, 50/50.

Chasing her 100% won't.

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