Hi all,

First time poster here. The reason I am reaching out is because my research on this scenario has, thus far, proved fruitless.

I'm at uni - London, and recently had an American girl move into our house (7/10). Despite her being in a very long relationship things started to hot up after about a week. We made out a few times - gradual escalation over a couple of days. She is older by 6 years and was reluctant to do anything for this reason. Last night I got the green light and we had sex for the first time. The pressure placed on it by the days of escalation made it seem like a let down. We were both drunk and neither of us came. She insisted on using a condom - which makes it hard for me to climax, and proceeded to tell me that she was allergic to latex. Basically, it wasn't very hot - there was some mechanical thrusting going on and I feel that we were both aware of it.

There are a number of problems I have to deal with now, none of which my booze riddled mind articulated at the golden hour. I would like to give it another go, preferably sober, but I'm not sure as that is going to be possible at the moment. I need advice as per damage control. How should I approach it with her? Should we discuss it? Should I make a joke out of it?

For the avoidance of doubt I am not interested in a relationship with this girl, but she is cute, and as it's exam season it would be great to have someone to sleep with in the same house for a few months!

Cheers,

M