I'm currently trying to build a friendship/relationship with a girl I met a few weeks ago. We live far away from eachother right now but will live in the same city within a couple of months so I'm all for it.

She seems so into me sometimes, and sometimes acts completely shitty. Oftentimes she will take 8 hours before she replies to my text, even if she sent the first text and I was just replying to her initial message. She told me that everyone gets mad at her for taking so long. I don't mind a few hours but 8 hours does get under my skin a bit. She will talk to me on the phone for hours at a time. She will tell me she is never going to sleep with me at the beginning of the phone call and before the phone call is over we are having phone sex. She seems to be SUPER hot and cold and can change with one phone call. She will say at the beginning of the conversation we should only be friends and at the end of the phone call she is talking about how she really likes me and tells all her friends about me all the time. Sometimes she will ignore me all day then I will wake up to a message at 4AM when I'm sleeping asking me to call her/wake her up real quick before work at 7AM so she can hear my voice. She has this side that seems so sweet but for the most part she is really mean. One day she wants me and is so into me and the next day she doesn't seem to care one bit. What do you think her point of view/thinking is on this thing between us? I know I should run. I just don't have it in me yet to run just yet. I like her a lot. Fucking one-itis. I'm not clingy either on the outside. I don't show that to her. Inside I am. On the outside i never text her until she texts me back. I don't push her or demand her attention.

GFTOW. This one girl shouldn't matter so much. You should have so many girls that you forget to text them back. That's her reality. Until you have a similar reality you cannot be together because you will be more needy of her than she is of you. That shows that you are not on her level and you've never had a girl like her.

You're showing that now by being too needy. You barely know this girl and you care too much about her. Go connect with 100 plus girls and see how this one really doesn't matter.

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Yeah, you are right. I need to get out there in the world and have other girls to talk to to reduce her significance in my life. I've definitely let back on her over the last few days and she can tell. She asked me about 5 times last night why I haven't been calling her.