Ok so this is just a general question with regard to how open I should be about my intentions with someone.

If a girl who I like but I am not seeing in anyway(not even what I would call friends I have only met her a few times we talk sometimes on facebook) is asking me what I am doing should I tell her that I am going out to sarge or that am taking a girl out on the date etc. or should I try and play it cool and be evasive.

I guess there are too parts to this one thing is how honest should I be with girls generally about my seeing other girls and indeed should I be honest about learning some of this stuff e.g. tell them I am going out with some guys to learn to pick up girls.

The second is if a girl is asking what I am doing should I be taking this as her actually saying take me out this weekend and therefore I should give an IOI back(following what I have read) obviously I might not be able to take her out but I could give some flirty remark or something.

Hope that makes sense it was a quick fire off one not a post I thought about. Thanks in advance.

Raven

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Invite her and take her out ffs! Say "I'm going out on friday. You can join me if you like". Don't talk about game with her, and don't mention anything about sarging. At the club, give her your full attention (as a friend) for the first 20 minutes or so. Then it's time to open a new set, and introduce her to them. Now you have a "triangle", you are "preselected" due to this girl, and you can use this situation to your advantage.

Give all girls equal attention, and don't ignore anyone. If you do this good, you can end up with some ego-boosting mass hysteria - all girls want you and they will fight for your attention. When it's time to leave, you can choose the girl you want.