hey guys, what do you think of an ex that i broke up with 3 years ago and suddenly starts talking to me everyday, for 3 months now, by email, at least 15 emails a day... she has a boyfriend, and says no problems. and she talking to me like that ?

I know all her girlfriends keep repeating to her that she was stupid to leave me, and they tell me his boyfriend is an controlling brainwashing violent ass that cheats on her.. I think shes even afraid to leave him.


Im trying to start developping PUA skills, because im afraid one day shes gonna break up with her bf and try to come back, id immediately say yeah, cuz I see 0 action from girls heh. She is very hot, that dont help either..

A couple questions?

How many girls have you been with since?

Could you fuck her again and walk away un-devastated?

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Zero girls... Lame I know...

I'm pretty sure I'd get reattached if i fucked her again heh, because I didn't fuck any other girls, yeah I dated like 4 but they were shit next to her

I didn't like / fuck those I dated

Ok, two things here and be aware of them...ITS BEEN A LONG TIME

3 years is huge to hear from an EX, so there could be many reason this guy has fucked up so much she is beginning to realize she was better off with u,

secondly she is scared to leave him and thinks if she jumps from him to a NICE GUY (you) , that you will protect her and help her out and when it all settles she can leave you, which isnt all bad but only way to avoid this one and as nasty as it sounds see if she will CHEAT on her boyfriend with you,

game her ass...

but first you need to convince yourself this is going no where if it does u will be nicely surprised if it doesnt no love lost, just dont give her what she isnt getting from him, because u cant say no if u get me !

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Never take a chance, in missing a chance....
Passed Mysterys 5 for 5 infield mPUA challenge, now looking into other games e.g. day, txt, online etc...
P.I.M.P.
Personality, Initiate, Maturity, Passion...

Here's the thing Bro. It's likely she'll fuck you again, BUTtypically our ex's are ex for a REASON!
You have already put her back on a pedestal, before you have even hooked back up with her!

That's staging yourself for a disaster!

Re-frame your mind set BEFORE you take on this challenge.

She is not a Goddess, she is NOT perfect, she is by far not the only hot girl on the planet earth that will fuck you!

Remember; She has had someone else s dick in her this whole time!

YOU, need to buckle down and prove this to yourself 1st!

How? You ask? Make it your personal challenge to put her on the back burner, and FUCK as many other women as possible in the next 30 days.

Do you think you are up for a challenge like that?

Your already thinking of one or two possibles aren't you?

Let's hear about her/them for a minute, then we'll come revisit your Red Lobster oneites problem.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

I would take Heywood's advice, he is super blunt but knows exactly what he is talking about.

One thing tho, in those 3 years i went from broke, live with parents and fat w/ drugs, to very fit, huge house, 6 figure salary and 100% clean... I blame myself for her cheating on me and leaving me, because i just was the worst i could be at the time.

I agree with you guys very well, that i need to bang other chicks first, this is why i started reading on stuff and posting in the forum. My subconscious prolly thinks shes on a pedestal like you guys say, simply because i didnt get much action from others. If I still want her AFTER i bang chicks then, i consider it as a rational decision...

I dont want to make her cheat on her bf with me... I banged her for like 4 months while she was with her ex when i got with her... and she cheated me too. NOW that i ask to go out sometime: she say, if im single someday sure why not..... it appears like she sort of became a better girl ( i think? ).

And thanks for the advice guys Guaranteed I will look for others really hard before i consider her.

Wish me luck guys, im going clubbing fri and sat and gonna try to hit on em

Bravo!
NO!

"I am going clubbing Friday and Saturday, and I'm going to open at least 20 HBs and I'm going to succeed!"

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Thank you for the attitude adjustment.