A friend of mine i knew from school, we weren't too close. we've hung out with friends on a few occasions and once just me and her. We were always kinda distant (shes got her filipino cliche and rarely deviates from them), when ever we make plans to hang out she always bails and or cant hang out when i invited her places. However she's made confessions about being sorry and feeling bad she couldn't a lot of times for being too "busy", she invited me on a trip to Downtown LA but canceled the trip later, with out telling me ahead which is rude. i know shes a flake (ive seen lots of afc's fail with her),so i obviously messed up somewhere.
i think i escalated too fast on our first 1on1 hang out but its unlikely cuz we've still were hanging out and talking after that, or it might be because she thinks i still have a gf, or maybe some1 told her i like her. anyways i think i messed up on my game with this girl.any ideas? and any idea to reconnect with this girl?
i was orginally planning on just inviteing her somewhere(but she doesnt answer or reply most times), however i am friend with some of her friends and i was thinking a jealousy plotline.

No idea what ur trying 2 accomplish

This kind of behavior likely means she is unsure of her interest level in you. Maybe she doesn't have anyone else or whatnot, but probably at the time of contact you raise her interest enough to get open to the idea of doing something, but after she loses interest.

This means your interaction game needs work. Look for posts on improving your text game and such. Also, try to be more interesting so the girl is more interested.

You're in luck. I've been testing some NLP concepts out on field lately.

This is a text and face-to-face routine. The first poem is based on a Ross Jeffries poem that I've enhanced and rewritten. It's in English. The second poem makes use of NLP techniques and is based on Tagalog Romance pocketbooks verbiage. Most Filipinas are suckers for prime time soap operas where you see a lot of push-pull from the girlie roles. They're also addicted to Tagalog Romance Pocketbooks where the push-pull from the girlie characters are just too much. Filipinas love to push-pull so you should definitely have a plan of action on how to push-pull her instead of her push-pulling you.

Calibrate her texting and face-to-face reactions after sending the first poem via text. When you've gauge her reactions then send the second poem which is in Tagalog. You'll have a better grip on how to game her. Do these poems work? Absolute-Fucking-Awesome-ly. You will f-close with the second poem if she reacts well to it.

First Poem

If I were a teardrop
Heaved from your heart
Shed from your eye
Cascaded from your cheek
Quivered from your lips
Then I wish it was from a memory
Born from your joy
Not grown from your sorrow
Lived from your bliss
Dried from your pain

Second Poem

PAG-IBIG
Sa pagbukas ng puso mo
Papapasukin mo ba ng walang galit
Ang matigas na paninindigan
Ng kanyang malinis at mainit na hangarin
Sa mababaw lang o sa kailalimlaliman
Ng bawat himaymay
Nang iyong dalisay
Na pagmamahal?
Nais mo ba ay dahan-dahan lang
O di kaya’y mabilis at walang humpay
Ang paglabas-pasok na pagbaon
Ng mga madudulas at mararahas na mga saksak
At gakabayo sa bilis na mga pagbayo ng ligaya
Na magwawakas sa mga pulandit ng pag-ibig
Na sabay-sabay puputok sa sinapupunan ng iyong puso?

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Approach. Open. Escalate. Isolate

Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

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