ok so this may be a little off topic for pu'ing but ive been curious.

So long story short a buddy of mine and his girlfriend ( a friend of mine as well) broke up. Now the story behind the break up is crazy so I wont get into that.

But anyways, as i've been talking with her lots because she likes too talk about him too me, she really dislikes him now by the sounds of it.

She is always dropping comments like, " what do you think he'd do if i told him we fucked" and that shes a " real sexual person" and stuff like that. She even said she told him to his face that " I'd rather fuck ____(my name) right now than you" when he was last trying to make a move on her.

My other curiosity here is that, is she hinting to me that she wants to fuck me and is she just kind of using my name and the idea of me as "revenge" because im friends with him? I dont think I ever could fuck her, even tho I would if you get what I mean. ha..

But ya, overall stupid question...just want an opinion from someone other than the fucked voice in my head:)

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Bit of both I reckon. We all know how women work, I take it if you're on this site then you do well with women and she knows it, so you have the pre-approved, high status in her eyes. So given what she's saying to you there's probably an attraction there. However, she probably also see's you, as you say, the perfect revenge fuck to annoy her ex.

I'd steer well clear though, if one of my buddies did something like that to me, well, all I'll say is there's be a fight. The girl likes you on a personal level, and as I said is probably attracted to you, but there would be a very heavy price to pay with your social life for doing anything with this girl. Up to you if you're willing to pay it or not.

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If this buddy of yours is a good friend, and you're a good friend to him then I don't see how you can even consider fucking her. Or even speaking to her a lot for that matter, your friend is probably hurting and wants to feel that he has the support of his friends, not that they're snakes waiting to strike now that the woman he once loved is single.

My best friend broke up with his girlfriend of 7 years, I immediately stopped speaking to her, he drops her, I drop all interaction with her beyond a nod and a "hi" in the street.

A friend in my social group had sex with another friend's ex not long after they broke up, needless to say it really hurt the guy, like he was a broken man, first his gf leaving him and then his "friend" stabbing him in the back.

Also, she probably wants to fuck you because she knows it will hurt him and she will tell him for sure.

It depends how close you are to your buddy.

She definitely wants to fuck you, as far as I can tell.

I hooked up with a friend's ex of 3 years two or three months after they broke up.

He did not take it well. Defriended me on Facebook, did not talk to me for months, said horrible things to me over text, said if he saw me in person he'd probably punch me.

It's been a little over a year now and he's just now talking to me more again. Usually to ask me girl advice because he knows I'm a "PUA" (I hate the term).