Alright... so I've been visiting San Diego about once a month for some seminars I've been attending, and I've nailed it down pretty well to the point where I get some action at least once while I'm there.

This is a bit of a story for understanding, but I'll condense it to get to the point. Hope you are patient enough to read/give advice.

The last time I was there I ran into some guys and we ended up going to several bars. The last bar I saw a girl who was easily a 9/10, in a hot dress, etc. (obviously wanted attention, I'll call her #1). I ditch the guys and move in.

I go up to her, and her friend says, "NO! GO AWAY! WE DON'T WANT TO TALK TO YOU!" etc...

Meanwhile, the girl I approached is giving me eye contact trying to stop her friend, and telling her friend she wants to talk to me.

I'm trying to at least be cool with the girl screaming at me (I'll refer to her as #2), saying that I wasn't some creepy guy trying to swoop on her, but no dice. She starts screaming at me even louder, and now swearing.

#2's boyfriend comes up, who is a body builder, and basically tells me to fuck off. I diffuse it and tell him that I wasn't messing with his girl, and that she was protecting her friend. Security then starts walking toward us, so I give in and walk off.

For the next 10 minutes, the girl keeps looking over my way but I ignore it. Finally I give her eye contact, and she walks away from her friends and comes over to me. We talk for about 15 minutes, and then her friend comes over, at which point I signaled my friends (first time I've benefited from a group... is this usually a big help?)

Time passes, she kisses me, then goes to the restroom. I see #2's boyfriend standing alone, so I had the idea to walk over there and talk to him, and be the submissive one and apologize. We talked for awhile, he basically gave the "had to protect my girl" routine, and moved on.

I see #1 later, and we went back at it, made out, etc... #2 starts screaming at me again, and this point her boyfriend tells her to shut the hell up (literally) and let us have a good time (it worked!).

Long story short, she ends up at my room, and we drink for another hour and have a genuinely good time. We literally start going at it, and her friend calls. I ask if she needs to answer it and she says, "No, she'll be fine." For some reason, I didn't drop it at that point, and told her that if she needed to tell her friend she was okay that she could go ahead and do it. I gave her privacy and left her alone.

After 2-3 minutes, I figured the worst had happened, and yep... she was gone. I literally stopped mid-undressing her to let her talk to her friend. End of the night, and I got one thing. Blue balls.

So is there a rule of thumb with this? Should I not have a conscience when it comes to getting laid and someone's well-being? I mean, wtf!?!

I've never had this happen... so any advice would be really appreciated.

...I did get laid the next night, but the girl wasn't as hot