i dated this girl very breifly but we ended it because she felt more dominant in the realtionship, but now were best friends that was about 6 monthes ago we hang out all the time but even in our friendship it seems like she is more dominant. so i am in the friends zone but even if i cant get out of it i still want to be the more dominant one in our friendship, any sugestions? or articles to be directed to?

oh and becoming such close friends with a girl realy boosts your confidance with other girls too

Yes, it's good to have girls that are close friends.

As far as becoming the dominant one, do a search on alpha traits. Basically, at the moment, you're apparently being a pushover with her. And, I wouldn't be surprised if you are that way with everyone you interact with as well.

Some girls are naturally not dominate, and with those, obviously it's easy to be the dominant one. With other girls, they are naturally more dominant, and it sounds like this girl is that way. It doesn't mean they don't want a man to be in control. What it means is she needs a strong man to be in control. Strong mentally, not physically. So, you will have to work on that within yourself.

Some immediate things you can do are freeze outs to let her know that she can't push you around. Then, you make plans and stick with them, regardless of what she does. Things like that.