Hey there guys, I'm new registered to this forum, but I'm already experienced with PU-Stuff, my English isn't the best, cause I'm from germany but I think it's good enough
I could need your help on something:

Every weekend I'm hanging out with my friends, we're partying or relaxing or whatever ... and for about 3 weeks, I'm making out with one girl from this social circle. I met her about 4 months ago and now she belongs to our group and we're often partying together. So 3 weeks ago we were dancing and stuff, I gamed her, we made out. She let me sleep in her bed, we're kissing, touching and so on but not fucking.
Last weekend i saw her again we had a lot of fun, and a makeout in my car i asked her to come home with her and she hesitates, i put in a little freeze out - if you wanna call it so - leaned back grabbed my chewing gum, chewed my chewing gum, we're kissing again then i told her, I would really love to take her home (i said this in a more playful way then i did here, this is just for describing the situation). She said, she would like me to but better not tonight (I don't think of it as an attraction problem, because she's okay with me tongue kissing touching tits and everything). So I gave her a good night kiss, said thats ok and "goodbye then, see you next week, ...do you want some chewing gum for the long way home ?" (CF, humor, no needy everything cool)
All in all I would describe her as a shy girl, in bigger groups she's not talking to much at first, when she knows everybody, of course she's talking, but when i remember her first time in our new group she was more the quiet one.
Soo, the thing is, I really really like her and i know that she likes me. I'm pretty sure she wants me as bad as I want her, but nevertheless she hesitates when it comes to sex. And most of the time I'm the one who starts kissing and touching and so on.(After I started things, she really gets into the mood and is making out with me, too of course) What can I do, to get her to sleep with me (this friday) do you have any ideas ? I'm always building lot's of Attraction when we're together and I'm always escalating physically. Maybe this calls for more comfort game ? What do you think, what would you do (I'm not the big comfort-gamer, my game is more based on attraction so maybe you have some good ideas)

Best Greetings from North-Germany,
Stmeister


By the way, we're both 20 years old.

Ah, escalate your kisses down to her pussy area.

Say, kiss her neck down to her breast, then back to her neck to increase tension. You kiss her back in the breast region this time sucking and licking her nipple. If she's right handed, go for the right nipple. If left handed, go for the left one. If she pushes your head away, force it way back in as long as she isn't saying NO. If she's right handed, it will be more difficult for her to push your head away if you're working on the right nipple.

Play music in the background for the proper timing. When making out, 3 minutes seem like 30 minutes so you need music to calibrate the length of your foreplay. Smooth by Santana is around 4 minutes. Smooth is just about right for foreplay time in the breast region peaking at the nipple.

After 4 minutes or one Santana song escalate to the navel area. Roll your tongue down to her navel and right back up the nipple when she isn't already resisting there. Some 3 to 5 minutes before you get your tongue below her navel and above the pussy area is good. That's about 2 Celine Dion songs. Chris Brown's With You feels just about right for this area.

When you get to the pussy area, there will be massive resistance before you can unzip her pants. Munch on her panties and lick the skin under her pubes until you feel her pushes weaken. Then with a low, commanding voice, say "Take off your pants."

When she says "No", say, "I'll just eat your pussy."

She'll take her pants off. Escalate from her pubes down to her peanut butter. Suck on the flaps of her schublig oven, then back to her peanut butter. Intensify your work on her peanut butter and make her come with one clitoral orgasm. Do not stop when she tries to push your head away. Intensify your tongue action some more until her second clitoral orgasm. When you feel her entire body quiver, that's the signal that you do some tongue action in her schublig oven. Work on the flaps and then the insides. When you feel her flaps or the insides twitch uncontrollably, that's the signal for your f-close.

F-close. Uhm, yeah. This is field tested advice done so many times with zero failure I can't see any issues why it shouldn't work.

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What hellhound said is good and all but i think you need to get her to chase you just a little bit before going into what he was talking about.

If you are going to a party or in a group setting this weekend, i would put a little distance between you and her, making her wonder why and wanting what isnt there anymore. If you meet everyone at the party or place, greet her with a hug and kiss on the cheek at the most. Then when in your social circle talking, make sure someone is between you and her all night unless she moves to be closer to you. Dont go to her, let her come to you. Excuse yourself from the group and go talk with some girls in another group, so she can see this and build a little bit of jealousy. While talking to some other girls, take a quick glance to confirm she is a little jealous, to see if she is looking at you. Once you have confirm, talk for a little while long and excuse yourself to go back to your social circle. Dont go into your social circle straight back to her side, again make her come to you again. I wouldnt even kiss her after the party until she made the notion to that she wanted it first. After she has made it clear that she wants a kiss, then and only then escalate it.