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So i start talking to this girl yesterday, before we have this school dance. We get there, she's grinding on me all night for like 45 minute blocks. I kiss her cheek, later we kissed a couple times. (Bout 3 seconds, not pecks)
Then one of her friends, this dude, has been standing not dancing looking depressed. Shes a free spirit and is like "I need to get him to dance with me" talks to him for the last half hr, they never dance, but she walks out with him. (In hs 1 nighters don't exist, u only get it in if you date for a while) she was also likeon't worry I have ore energy to dance" but the dance ended soon after. anyways, I talk to her over text for a while, and she's like "sorry, it's complicated" or something like that. I don't think she "likes" him, as she was there dancing on me the whole night, with him standing right there for a while.
The night ended on an awkward note, but I played my game and up until she talked to him for the last half hour, things went well. She's not a slut, but kind of free spirited. She was like "I'm single" when she went to talk to him, and I was like
"I know, I'm not holding you down" then I said "I'm gonna dance with your twin (hot also) sister"... Then said, "I'm single" and smirked as I used her line. But she literally got her sister to dance with me.
I have already DHV as she's a year younger, and pretty short, so I throw out negs every once in a while. Also when she tried to take a break and get water, I started to lag behind, and she looked back and grabbed my hand (IOI)
I like this one. Her ex is a hockey player, as am I, and she's into athletes. Shes also a varsity soccer player. Oh, I also built some rapport, when her twin (the preppy one) gave her her pink coat and was like "put this on the table" so we both mocked her and laughed.
So things didn't end great, but I mean she was on me most of the night, kissed me, and tested me untill like 2. No text response this morning yet, but she seems like the free spirit, and I think it's a big mistake if I seem too needy/wanting. Whats my next move?
You're insecure and needy. Sorry mate it's true. That being said, you're 17! So there is no shame in that. Basically you were probably alpha in the beggining. But 45 minutes of (highschool & sober) dancing, will lead to any girls love curtains slamming shut. Therefore, you fucked up. But who cares! You danced with two twins, you go to the same school, and you'll probably see them both soon. When you do, be Alpha. Don't be insecure, don't be beta, don't be needy. You've got this. Shape your character now.
Cheers,
AlphaConfidence
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