I don't know if you'd call this a date, but i got a girls number at University. Just off a cold approach. I texted her a little and now I'm hanging out with her next Wednesday on a break we both have.

I'm not really sure how i should play it. I mean we could get coffee at one of the cafes at my University, or we could just hang out on the grass. Either way I'm still not sure what to do.

Are there any specific rules i should follow?, Usually i just talk about whatever with the girl, and then after were done hanging out i attempt to kiss.

Also 1 more question. I recently got a girls number at a club, she seems pretty interested. Should my first priority to be to push for a coffee date. Or are there better ideas.

Keep in mind I'm only 18, if that changes anything

Ive been on 2 coffee dates before, one turned out alright i thought, but the girl wasnt interested, the second one, i wasnt interested.

Just make sure its fun and aim to build attraction(keep strong eye contact etc. ). Either way make sure you are situated in such a way that you can build up some light kino and go for the k-close. so if you go for coffee sit on a sofa side by side not interview mode at a table. if the cafe isn't like that stick to the grass depending on your style you could always have a bit of a fun wrestling or something or it’s easy to be playful. I am sure others with more experience can give you more specific advice.

Raven

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