| I've been seeing this girl for the past 3 weeks. It started really well, when I opened her in a club after strong ioi's from her. She said she wanted to see me again and was the one who initiated the texting and the first meet-up the next day. Since then we have meet 4 times (2 resulting in sex) and have texted each other everyday (bar one day at the beginning of the relationship). It was usually her that initiated conversation, and I would often not respond straight away and she would send several messages in a row. However, I ran into a problem at the weekend. She text me on Saturday morning asking how my meal was the night before? I replied and asked her how the show she went to was, and she replied randomly - that she was hurt I didn't visit her in work (as we had joked about it before on dates). Then on in the day I replied a few more times, and eventually saying we should rendezvous later in the night, and I could tell she wasn't up for it - because of the statement answers. So I left it, but she text me twice to ask where I was going that night? I replied back, and it turned out she was where I was heading anyway, so I seen her in the bar and we merged into the group of her friends. However, I could tell the vibe I got with her wasn't as strong as before (i.e. less strong ioi's - hair twirling and eye-contact, and she didn't ask about me as much). We were heading to a club, and she was heading to another bar before heading home with her girlfriend who was staying the night with her. She said they weren't going to a club, even though I told her we had guest list. I wasn't going to push it. I told her to text me when she got home because that's what she did with me (even though I waited for her to ask me usually). I got home much later that night, and said I just got home, but she missed a fun night out at club and casino. Got up next day - no response to that statement, even though before she would have. Now been a whole day without messaging, when normally she would text me something.
My question is has she lost attraction?
Did I become too boring/predictable? (I know I didn't use enough push/pull)
Can it be turned around, we talked about where we wanted relationship to go and she was keen to make it something more (which I wasn't opposed to either)
Should I text her something later tonight asking how she is and that we should meet up on Wednesday for drinks? Or would that seem like to easy a challenge.
She is attractive and I feel if I don't act soon, I will lose her for good (if not already)
Please can you help and advise, I really fed-up of f#cking up with girls and losing attraction 3-4 weeks into relationships...
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