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Hi guys,
I am new to PUA, I would class myself as extreme Newbie. I have recently started to pay attention to 'Game' and realised that I need to change to get what I want. Here is what I have done in past few weeks.
I went out for past few weekends regularly to clubs, I was surprised to see that it was easy to talk to girls (This is from a person with zero confidence to talk to girls). Anyway the biggest hurdle that I am facing is that clubs seem awfully noisy and so overcrowded that it is extremely difficult to talk and understand each other. I had to shout to make myself heard and most of the times I did not understood what the girls were saying. I did not really made any inroads into prolonging conversations because of this. Due to the overcrowding it was impossible to keep a girl focused.
Is that the general experience or am I just going to wrong places? Can someone suggest some good places to go to in London?
Thanks guys,
pandat
Talk louder. Speak from your chest instead of from your throat and it will make it much easier to hear your voice. I'm not a big fan of loud clubs for that exact reasons. You start moving your head around and having to lean in... Not a good scenario. Clubs are good if you have somewhere that is QUIET to move to. Honestly, you will find the hottest girls at loud clubs. The louder the music, the hotter the girls. Because they KNOW it will keep guys from being able to hit on them. I prefer lounges if I'm working night game. Otherwise I prefer street/day game. Clubs are very easy to practice ALOT but its not exactly the best way to practice RIGHT. You have alot of different interrupts and things that could fuck you up. The only reason this is practiced in a club is because there are alot of people there.