Hey guys, i have a question that just came to me. maybe some of you have experienced this before.

i feel like my social status is avrege, not really alpha male of my college yet, still need to work on my self a bit.
but in regards of social proof, i have many questions, amongst those this one:

there's a girl thats attracted to me but that i dont wanna be with. i know having girls attracted to me and not sleeping with every sinlge one of them can be a good thing in social circle, my question is should i flirt with her? or how do i treat her?
this is the thing. i know sooner or later we will end up at the same pre party and club. if i flirt with her a lot, and then dont act upon it, might it be bad for my reputation? like "he's not man enough to take responsability for his actions" or something?

how do you handle this situations?

dude i know its a newbie question, but in my childhood i did lead a girl on and all the other girls ganged up on me to hate me after that for like half a year in 8th grade. so fuck i never learned how to handle this situations well.

Owen

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