Baha I have to say it's kind of funny. If you wouldn't mind reading this short facebook convo, and then if you can help me out with what the hell happened, or if there are any ways to continue this. I'm completely dumbfounded. I have a hard time believing she fully meant it. Hopefully, with your advice, there is still a bit more fun to be had.
Back story:
I found her on Facebook and sent her this message after meeting her the day prior. We were drinking quite a bit and then we got a motel room with some friends. Me, my gf at the time(yes, we broke up the next day), and her ended up naked and underneath the sheets. Both of the girls started making out . While they were making out she kept reaching over to touch me. My gf would physically move her arms or legs off me, but she continually put them back. My female friends kept telling me that she was going on about how hot I was all night).
Here is the Facebook conversation (for the purposes of this conversation we'll name my exgf Jen):
Me: Oh my goodness.. I can't even move today. I'm fairly sure it's your fault somehow haha
Girl: I doubt you feel as awful as me! I had to work tonight and everything.
I would say it was more your fault than mine; I was just participating, you were instigating
Me: Bahah! You had to work? How did you make it through? You're like Superwoman or something. I was instigating?? Haha that's not how I remember it!
Girl: Honestly when people ordered alcohol I almost started crying.
I think you and I were by far the most drunk. I don't trust either of our interpretations of that night!
Me: haha ok I can agree on that. You almost started crying? lol that happy or that sad?
Girl: I just really didn't want to smell alcohol for a few days. I honestly barely survived the drive.
Speaking of which, are you in trouble with Jen? She woke me up in the middle of the night and thought you were sleeping with me
Me: haha yeah she told me about that. Umm... not sure how to explain this given we just met haha. Things hadn't been looking great for a while but due to completely different reasons.. yeah.. that's how I'll say it ha.
OH I thought you meant when they pulled out alcohol in Medicine Hat. I was thinking you didn't seem all that disappointed at the time
Girl: That's good enough
I don't want her to know we're talking, just to save us the hassle of dealing with that situation. I just don't want her to hate me, especially if I ever plan on going to another one of your shows.
I forgot we didn't really talk Friday night; we really just got naked.... That sounds so weird
Me: haha well.. it was St. Patrick's Day. Who can blame us? And I wouldn't worry about that as we broke up haha
Oh and we did talk a little while you tried to force that sandwich down my throat... that has to count for something
Girl: That was your sandwich! Jen was trying to force me to eat it so I used you to get out of it. I barely remembered that though!
I hope I didn't have anything to do with that, I really tried not to get you in any trouble.
Me: Nope. You're good and clear. Ah so in a way I was your fall guy? That's cold.
Girl: Even if you ate it you'd still owe me, I made out with your girlfriend and was totally down for anything
Me: You have a good point there. Another view point may be that I was, in fact, letting you make out with my girlfriend?
As more of a service to you perhaps?
Ok, I think I have it figured out. Why don't you meet me for coffee? We can have a serious discussion on the topic of topless lesbian make outs? But in a highly professional manner of course
Girl: Hey _____ sorry for the late reply I was just thinking I might have been sending you the wrong signals, if this is not the case sorry just disregard this message, I'm not interested in anything happening between us. sorry to hear about you and Jen, wish you all the best
Me: meh no worries. Maybe I'll just stick to bringing other girls around for you to fool around with
My brain:HAHAH WTF???
Lol her unpredictability, and how maturely and responsibly she rejected me, makes me want to pursue her so bad. Any advice on how I would go about this? I want to make sure it's a good time for both of us.
CHAT