okay, so there's a horrid little backstory to this but long sotry short, a girl i knew in hs ive never talked to before knows i have interest in her

I went to her workplace in january with a rose, to "anchor her" if you will and hope everything went well

turns out, I ran into a logistical problem: she was working in the back

I get one of her co workers, she asks my name and who im looking for, goes in the back, I hear SCREAMING, then I hear her tell her, he's got a rose. the screaming ceases, the co worker comes back and says she's busy and nothing more

i hang out for a few more seconds, trying to buy some crap and out comes 2nd co worker, her friend

she drags me outside, we talk for a bit and she tells me how busy it really is and that the boss is there, I believe this and she asks to leave my phone number but will not take either the rose norlet me see her.

coworker2 also asked if there is anything I'd like to say to her, to which i reply "there's nothing YOU can tell her that will convince her, I have to do that myself", I also tried to get coffee with her after her work shift was done but to no avail. i never spoke or saw her. I went as prepared as I could

I need advice here guys, what should I do? what CAN I do to properly date and maintain this girl?

I'm willing to send out more details to the senior members of this forum over PM, I understand that I need practice with pick up to get this one and get her to see me with other girls to spark interest, but look into your hearts and PLEASE help me figure out a plan to get this girl.if I date her and get to know her, I can see how things things develop from there.

I am willing ot go to the last consequences and to the max limit to have this girl.

Dude... I don't know what to even say here

You stalked her at work? You need to work on your innergame, ALOT! read the alpha male secrets book, and read alot and especially this book twice! also read all the threads in the innergame forum. You should never do what you did at that shop again, girls become afraid of that and will think your weird, you don't want to portray that image now do you ?

thanks for the replies, i needed to know that it's a lost cause and be scolded.

Ya dude. Next time open her in Facebook or something and go from there. Don't stalk her lol

I'm sorry, but that sounds like a horrible idea. the only sensible idea is to leave her alone and MAYBE if serendipity kicks in I'll be ready by then.

there is no next time, I have to re-build my life.

Well much has been said.

Nonetheless, time is your friend.
Forget her for at least a few months. Do your own thing- work, school, your interests, etc.
You want to improve yourself: learn more about women, yourself, and new things.
In some time, you can hope you run into her. Your obsession will hopefully drain and you will start a few steps back from a near clear page.

As of now though, you want to forget this girl. Literally throw her out of your mind. If you have her number, delete it. If she is your friend on facebook, delete her.

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Well much has been said.

Nonetheless, time is your friend.
Forget her for at least a few months. Do your own thing- work, school, your interests, etc.
You want to improve yourself: learn more about women, yourself, and new things.
In some time, you can hope you run into her. Your obsession will hopefully drain and you will start a few steps back from a near clear page.

As of now though, you want to forget this girl. Literally throw her out of your mind. If you have her number, delete it. If she is your friend on facebook, delete her.

_________________
A morning of awkwardness is far better than a night of loneliness.

18 Body Language Mistakes I Bet You're Making