You may have seen my other threads but here is everything coming together.

This girl and I hooked up for about 2 months. She is a virgin and the furthest i could get was talking her top half clothes off all the way and fingering her thru her clothes. I was aware that she was heartbroken aboit 5 months before we started hooking up so I thought she would be over him. Things were great for the 2 months until her ex heard I was hanging out with her and escalating relatively quckly for her standards. hell she even stayed over at my house one night and we fooled around for 5-6 hpurs straight. so one night her ex tells her he wants to get back together and she contemplates it and gets all confused. I froze her out, gamed other chicks, kissed other chicks and she still chose the ex, this happened for about a week and a half. she was in love. Nothing I could do so I went NC for a week.

she got a new phone and asked everyone for numbers etc. so i txted her my name with an opinion opener, it worked well amd i was flirting and asked her to come hang out. she said no and then i used a bit of reverse pysch on her saying it was just under the pretense of friends. i told her i was seeing other girls and even asked for some of her friends numbers. it was my form of trying to make her jealous. and she got jealous! i then resumed NC.

Then last night, about 2 days after above paragraph her ex broke up witg her for another girl i believe. I happrened to see the hb i like at a grocery store. actually she saw me from her car and she txted me saying she saw me. i acted distant in the 2 txts that we exchanged back and forth.

i left her last txt for like 3 hours amd then replied to it when i was drunk. she was drunk too. we started flirting a bit. she told me she likes me and always has but she was in love and wanted to see if anything was still on with her ex. she was on a huge rebound night.. she told me she kissed 6 girls and 3 dudes. then she said she wants to sleep with me. she said she wants to have sex with me a lot. we were both drunk. i never said that i liked her back last night i jist said she was cute and we could have sex if she makes me food after. she said the deal is off if i dont txt her first today.

i am not going to txt her first or else i lose the game she is playing..right? and i actually like her but i know I will be the rebound again.should i go for it or what? i may try and go for the f close and not date her until shes actually over him.

sorry for the spelling mistakes, i am on my phone. i am looking for any suggestions!

Don't jump through her hoops unless she jumps through yours. Sounds like she's been bullied by her ex and wants to bully you to make herself feel better. Invite her over and bang her but don't get involved in head games via text.

Hes pretty right, and I don't know if what your thinking but I can warn you this girl is NOT relationship material as the stuff with the ex has shown she'll go back to him whenever he wants