Hey best advice I can give you is drop all that dhv push and pull shit.
I had a major problem wondering how to fix stuff like this and when to drop certain things in certain situations. It's a headache it feels like your studying for a test and no girl has the same answer key.
In normal conversation you use dhv push and pull and all that stuff. Let me give you an example of a convo I had with my male roommate.
Me: I got a ball python today!(dhv)
Him: WTF where did you get it?
Me: it's a her! Get it right! (push and pull?)
Him: where did you get her!?
Me: petco I got a hell of a deal paid $35 for everything cuz it was an adoption. (dhv)

Just have a conversation with her these functions should come easy when your not trying. Just be sarcastic and have Fun man make yourself laugh she will too I guarantee it!

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if you get yourself to k close I can get you to f close private message me for details. Works like magic