just had to ask this to the guys on here, college related stuff which can help me

I have read the university tips thread and it seems like a lot is intended for students who were at a university at day 1 (freshman).

My story, I spent my first two years of college at a university not that far from home and one that did not have that much of a college feel to it (felt like a community college in many ways except it was a 4 year school with a lot of commuters).

Now I am a junior in college and I transferred in kind of late. The fraternity option is pretty much closed off here (not that many fraternities will accept an upperclassman). School is a HUGE DIVISION 1A school that is big on the Greek Life (good sports programs, etc.).

I have to spend about 4 semesters there. Before I arrived at the university my lay count was at around 10 and at the current university I have only had about a couple.

Although I have made friends, I do find myself lonely at times (adjusting to life as a transfer student) since it is my first semester. Friends I have made I have made through classes. I have joined some organizations too.

So how does a transfer student who is going to spend about 4 semesters at a given university become successful in terms of attracting girls to him?

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I just come on here these days to give advice and read interesting threads. Gone are the days when I came to seek advice and validation.

Joining uni organizations is a good start. In terms of taking active approach towards this situation.

It seems to me that you are taking this the wrong way and seeing how being new here can hurt you or something. Chane this point of view. This is an opportunity. This is a challenge. To learn and experience something new. Throw yourself out there.

In terms of getting girls, dude, girls are girls. And they are the same. Every fucking where. One of my most favourite quotes (I think its from Corry Sky) "Being great with girls has nothing to do with girls. It has everything to do with being great with yourself". Do what you would normally do. Go out and talk to them.
"Hi, I'm new here. You seem like cool people and I want to meet you. My name is CR7..."

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