Hi guys, just wanted to let you in on something I've been exposed to today, Jealousy

here is my story
I met a HB8/9 a while back and got talking on Facebook and texting since mid January, I was seeing another girl at the time so I didn't follow it up all that much, anyway a few weeks went by and I gave her and her friends a lift home from a club she went to last Saturday, it was going well we were chatting and having a laugh on the drive home, the next day on Sunday we're messaging each other again and exchanged a picture each, she came round that evening and we had a good rough session (she told me she has a high sex drive and likes it rough) she said she'd came more times with me than any other guy - so I know we had a fucking good end to the weekend!

anyway today (Tursday) shes distant with me, I ask her whats up and it turns out that some other dude (I'm pretty sure I know who it is) has told her that I showed him pictures of her naked which she sent me a while back when we were first talking


so here's my problem

I'm not worried about losing her as a potential lay/girlfriend/whatever it could have turned into

I'm more worried about the fact that her feelings are now hurt because of this dude, but she thinks its me, I make every effort to walk through life and not make anyone feel bad or hurt them in any way, I'm one of the nicest guys you'll meet, and I especially didn't want it to end this way!

I was literally at a loss for words when she told me about this, she won't tell me who said it to her, but she
says "I know for a fact" which I'm perplexed about considering I didn't show anybody the pictures!

I'm now in a situation where I look like a complete cunt, she hates me and doesn't trust me anymore, she had trust issues before all this anyway so those are going to be much worse now which means that it'll take her ages to trust another guy again because of this, and she is never ever going to trust me again unless I can somehow convince her that its not true

like I said I've not got oneitis or anything with this girl but I was actually considering seeing where this was going to go, and now its been ripped out of my hands by someone who couldn't handle their jealousy, thing is I don't even know who knows about us getting together! so I don't know where this is coming from

forgive the grammar errors hope it wasn't too confusing to read.

if anyone has any advice on what I can do to at least make her feel better I'd really appreciate it!

SM
Ollie

Has no one got any advice or input??

Confront the dude!

Look, what i would have done is this:
I would tell her to say who, or else I call her bullshit and she is just testing you and making shit up.. and say that to her face. Force her to say who and confront the guy with whats this bs you're talking about. Don't fight, just get the truth heard. Either she is lying or the dude is, but if you're sure you didn't show anyone, then you are not lying and you have to prove it if you really care about her.

Are you absolutely sure that you never showed anyone the pictures while you were drunk or something?

Could there have been a time a friend could have looked through the pictures in your phone without your knowledge or consent?

I did confront him and he denied the whole thing, thing is he is the only person who knows that I was gaming her, so it could only have been him. hes a bitch though, apparently hes done things like this in the past as well, from what I've heard anyway,

possibly when I was drunk but I would not have willingly shown him the photos - its just not my way!

I'll leave her too cool down for a few days and then call her and ask her if she'll meet me so we can talk about it, I'll go in with a statement saying I understand we might not ever be what we might have been, but hopefully she will feel better, I hate leaving it like this though

I did call her bluff, but she said he "described the pictures in detail" so I'm guessing she sent him the same ones a while back - he did actually show me the ones he has so it could be that