This has been posted many times but its always an interesting conversation!

Went out with my gf and one of her friends the other night, just the three of us, I danced for a bit but got tired so I grabbed a drink, sat back and watched the two of them dance. Both of these girls are good looking, my gf is stunning (hb 9 or 10) her friend is very cute! (hb , as I watched them dance I watched guys point, stare, plan and then approach them, it was interesting to watch! in each group there was always one guy who would head in first and then the rest would follow, it was odd to watch! I knew my gf got hit on a lot but this was the first time I had paid attention and within a 30 minute period they got hit on by about 5 different groups of guys...that's at least 30 guys in 30 minutes lol

It got me thinking what a vulnerable place the club is! Do you guys feel bars and clubs are inappropriate places for people in relationship to hang out at without their gf or bf around?

Non of these guys bothered me, but I was thinking to my self "wow if she was hit on this often in thirty minutes what happens in a full night?".

The human dynamic amazes me!

Personally I hate going to clubs with a girl I am dating, if I am even remotely serious about her.

I just don't really like it, pushes my jealousy buttons and can touch on my insecurities I suppose. Perhaps going into that environment would harden me to it and improve things, but as a general rule I go to nightclubs to meet girls and after that I prefer to take them to quiet bars or coffee shops etc.

Agreed, as do a lot of people. Bars and clubs are places for single people. Taking your girlfriend there is just asking for trouble.

In an odd way I enjoy knowing that my gf is desired, I might not feel the same way if I was not around though lol

Clubs and bars are the ultimate temption! alcohol and guys hitting on women is a bad combo lol I think back to my single days, I would hit on women who had bf's and 80 to 90% of the time I would end up with a number....100% of the time they told me they had a bf, yet I was able to work around it.

that same girl probably had 50 guys hitting on her that night, but it only took one who knew what he was doing to break through her shit tests and get her number...and I am no fool I know there are other pua's out there doing the same thing.

It made me change my view on "clubing" if a girl wants "girls night" how is it girls night if there is a club full of guys hitting on them? 50% of their time they are talking to guys while in the club lol

I don't give shit what anyone says, it has nothing to do with inner game, I had to do with common sens. That being said I would never tell a women what to do but I would question her actions. If a girl is constantly clubbing and having "girls nights" on a weekly basis Il tell her to hit the road.

Such as... Some examples?

I still think those ones were easy and someone either "in love" or "completely happy" with her partner wouldn't throw around any shit tests... OK, one might say these are the minorities, but still that number seems pretty high..

Have to agree with everyone before me. Nothing good can come from going to a club. I've never acted out, but I've seen so many guys lose their cool, and the gf always gives them the "The fuck is wrong with you?" talk.

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