When girls want to check if a guy is turned on... it's easy, they can just look for a boner, which is very obvious.

I'm a real novice and don't have ANY idea how to see if the girl is turned on. I'm pretty good at reading IOIs and mirroring; but how to I specifically check if she's being sexually stimulated?

I'm guessing you're already in the foreplay period.. Well if she is closing her eyes and moaning or breathing heavily then you know she is turned on.. If she is kissing you passionately and not just waiting until this is over then she is turned on. If you touching her tits, and you see her nipples are hard, she is turned on. One time, i was having drinks with a girl at a bar and we started talking about sex and her most spontaneous experiences and i could tell she was so into the conversation and she was holding her glass so tight and then it fell out of her hand on the ground.

I teased her saying: " Omg, we are just talking and you are turned on, what would you have done if i was kissing you and feeling your body?" she got really shy and couldn't handle the sexual tension there and leaned in to kiss me. Words can be strong sometimes, but kino is your way to go to turn a girl on. Start softly and add the pressure as you don't want to be the creep who is too touchy and awkward. And of course, if you start to finger her and she is wet she is ready to fuck.

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I'm far from foreplay. Very very far

lol sorry I have no experience whatsoever; I'm only like 18.
What if we're just like wrestling or holding hands? or if she's sitting on my lap? She's probably not going to be closing her eyes and moaning - but I might be getting a boner.. Is it just harder to tell for girls than for guys?