| It's starting to get annoying, generally speaking i have a good track record with women, not that i am into counting numbers, but i have probably slept without around 5 or 6 women, had a beautiful, smart girlfriend, and receive a lot of compliments, but lately i keep on slipping up.
on at least 4 different occasions now, i have ended up having an attraction between someone, which i know is there due to ioi's or even friends telling me, but after one or two encounters, i seem to mess it up somehow, and how i really don't know. I get a feeling its because i may talk a lot and this gives off the impression of being into them too much, but i can't believe women are really that flakey. Whenever i ask one of them if they would like to join me at this bar where i am going with some people, or in town etc, they always can't do it, and its starting to make me feel paranoid.
On the plus side i am getting so immune to rejection that i don't care and take personally, but i know there is something i am continually doing wrong but not sure what it is ?
I believe it may be my mindset, although i come across as very confident and a lot of women have referred to me as a player at university, i still have this slight desperation in my psyche when it comes to pulling, and i hate to say it but people are very receptive, although i have been giving the cold shoulder too much and loads of negs, insecurity probably finds a way of seeping out.
Point is, i want to regain my complete indifference attitude, the attitude i have when i usually am quite successful in pulling. Has anyone gone through the same thing, or have any advice ?
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