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so i really liked this girl at work who i know liked me but the situation just turned into mind games.
according to her sister she didnt trust me and i didnt trust her.
so she left and found another job elsewhere.
a month later and she's contacting me, saying hi how are you?
part of me thinks she's just testing to see if i'm still there as and when she wants.
how to react? ignore? or try to push further?
basically want to keep the upper hand here instead of giving her the power.
You're over analyzing way too early brah. Just get the conversation going or she will just think you're a boring sod now.
Standard procedure to be honest. Start, mirror then escalate. Just because she plays games doesn't mean you have to in fact if she starts just go for the old.
Her: blahblahblah *insert stupid schoolyard game tactic here* blahblahblah
You: I don't like playing games anymore, i want you.
Something like that will just throw her off balance, surprise her and interest her.
CHAT