so i met this girl last september, approached, gamed, everything seemed good. ask for her number and she reject me so i walked away. Next time she seen me she approached me and asked if i was mad at her in a playful way. So we flirt a little but i dont really try and do anything because she rejected me, and honestly i was a little upset. Seen her a couple more times, same thing we would flirt but nothing else. She came up to me on halloween, we started talking and she brings up how she rejected me so i told her she was the one approaching me and she got pissed off. Kinda feel like i hurt her (Could see it in her eyes) After that i didnt see her for a while.

fast farward to now, ive seen her twice in the last week. First time she was standing a couple people behind me in line to a bar. I looked at her but she didnt look at me. seen her last night at a bar and she looked at me for a split second while she was walking by.

So yea, dont know what to do. Seems like i should just let it be, but i want to talk to her still. We had aso much sexual tension between us before i pissed her off. I want it back. First thing i told her when i met her was that she was ignoring me and that seemed to be a great opener. It would work in the situation were in right now and im going to ask her why she ignoring me next time i see her probably tonight.

Just wondering if you guys think this is a lost cause or if i have a chance, Just want to hear other opinions on the situation i guess.

Your big mistake was letting her rejection get to you. Sounds like you ejected too early, and because you were focusing on the rejection you missed the opportunity to re-escalate and then that was it. Don't let rejection affect your game, that's the lesson here.

But you opened this girl in september? And since then no kino, no escalation, nada? Yeah, if you want my opinion this is a classic case of not worth it. She seems flaky anyway, you don't need that headache in your rotation.

there was kino, re-escalation? Trying to ask her to hang out? did that to. I will say this is the hardest girl ive tried to get with, probably the reason i want to do this. I know for a fact ive gotten better at talking to girls since ive talk to her.

BTW i wasnt focusing on the rejection, maybe the first time but thats bout it. (but totally understand what you mean by not focus on that) When she brought up rejecting me for the second time i tried to ignore it. She said remember that time you asked for my number and i said no. Or something on the lines of that. I tried to act like i didnt hear it, Was hanging with my homie that was trying to leave, so i asked for her number again and she said no. Thats when i told her she was the one approaching me. Things got serious she looked me in the eyes and asked me if i really wanted to do this and then it was over she walked away