So, there's a girl I know that has been friends with everyone in my group for quite a while now. Me and her aren't the closest as we usually never talk much unless we are all hanging out. Anyway, she lives a ways away now but I knew she was going to be coming home because of a recent conversation we had had and she mentioned she'd text me to hang out then. She ends up texting me and my other guy friend and I tell her ill find us something fun to do (trying to lead more). At one point it seems we are going to just go to my friends place and stay in but I tell her screw that let's go out so I ended up just taking her out because my other friend didnt want to come. Perfect I thought but wasn't sure how she viewed the interaction (date or friends..we had never hung out alone together). We had a fun time and I tried to kino and tease more trying to flirt and change the dynamic. When we leave I ask her if she wants to come over for a movie or something (something I never do because I live at home). Low and behold she says yes! So we pick out a movie and end up watching in my bed because the other room is taken. At this point we are like half spooning and not really sure what she expects. I kind of rub her leg for a bit but when I put my arm around her she quickly moved it! After that I didn't try again to make a move (should I have?). Movie ends I take her home and we hug goodbye.

I text her a few days later something funny teasing her about something funny she did on our 'date' but she has yet to respond. Not sure where to go from here. Don't know if we are just friends or what happened. I mean she was in my bed so maybe she is into me? But then again she rejected my move on her.. Any advice?

Quit giving up so fucking easy!

Did you try to kiss her 1st? Apparently not.
Did you try to re-engage? No.
Did you try to touch somewhere less sexual to build comfort? No.


She is likely disappointed you gave up that easy after she gave you your chance.

All girls know "Going to watch a movie" is code for "I'm going to try to fuck you tonight".

Both her ASD (anti slut defense) and LMR (last minute resistance) will be instinctively switched to high!

She wants a bold, confidant Man to break down these barriers FOR her.

So that sex is not HER fault, it's YOURS.

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Guess I feel like I didn't want to make her too uncomfortable/creep her out. When I put my arm around her she just said, 'getting a little close there buddy' and moved it. Things weren't weird after but didnt completely try another move besides rubbing her leg a little. What would you guys do/say if that girl said that too you?

She never did reply to my text although it didnt really require an answer because I didn't ask her a question and more just made a comment. Do you think that's a sign she's not interested? Sometimes I think that but then again she was in my bed! (But did deny me..)

Not sure where to go from here. Might make it seem like I came into some tickets to a game and ask her if she wants to go? Then if she's wishy washy ill tell her to let me know because I need enough time to find someone else to go with (showing options). Plus this would make it clear its a date if I asked her to the game..

All thoughts are appreciated. Thanks for the reply and looking forward to more!