hey guys, i got this situation in my social group in college that i need to solve and if any of you have any experience or opinion about it i would really appreciate it, i'll be sure to try and help you out too

so this is the situation, at the beginning of freshmen year i started to develop a social group with the people that happened to be in class with me. im an engineering mayor so not very many guys are talented with women in my classes as you would guess, but its all good, they are all good people.

except for this one guy that i really dont know why just trys to AMOG me all the freaking time.

to put a frame to the situation, this guy, lets call him manuel, is not good looking, does not have much going for him except for having a hot cousing studying with engineering with us at our school and is not the social leader by any means, it sort of feels like one of those guys that put people down to feel better about themselves.

the thing is, of course i would just blow him away if i could but his friends with my friends, and in particular with one of my high value friends so i cant cut him off that easy. he's in our social group.

let me give you guys an example of how fucking annoying this can get: im organizing a little pre partying at my house with some female friends and my boys on thursday night, of course i have to invite this fucker, and in our SPAM group conversation one of my female friends called alexia is like

alexia- so we should get to the club before 2:00am so we can get in free!!
manuel- nah dude we should do a good pre-party and then go like 3:30 to the club
me- dude its thursday remember my parents work the next day.

(im from argentina, its normal for us to live with our parents during college)

a few texts later the girls are like ok at what time should be come over, im like lets do 10:30pm, 11:00pm

manuel is like nah Owen thats lame lets do 12:00pm

i didnt even answer that, and a few hours later he pms me saying if i could just buy all the booze.

im trying to become a leader of this social group and this fucker keeps trying to put me down, i dont know how to handle this to be honest

any opinions, comments or suggestions would be grately appreciated, i'll be sure to have your back as i said.

thanks for reading

Owen

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pms me saying if i could just buy all the booze.
-I would tell him to buy all the fucking booze. and if says he can't just change his perspective, for example "I can't man. I fucked the guys daughter who runs the pub. Not allowed in there anymore." and if he finds out you didnt, just change his perspective again "I only said that cause I was having a bad day. found out my dad fucked my ex girlfriend" Drama is your friend;)....another thing, tell him to do something he's already doing or is about to do. like lets say he's bitching to you at a party about something while he's holding a beer. just tell him "just keep holding your beer and bitching man. go on keep going. what else you got?".... and mreh, I know a lot of times you want to be in control, but sometimes you shouldnt really care at all. If people see you have a weakness theyll use it against you. If that dude can see he pisses you off when he gets in control of things, he'll use that against you.

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thanks bro i loved that part of telling him to do something he's already about to do, did you came up with that?

also fuck yes i've been showing him he pisses me of and that drives him more. i mean i know this stuff but now that you point it out i can see it better.

thanks a lot

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punch him in the face (not in front of girls)