This is detailed to my other post. I was dating this HB10 and Im wondering wtf she is thinking. I told her from date 1 that she isnt the only and she didnt flip out. She said, "at this point I dont expect to be, its only a date. " then she continued to watch the game and massage me. I dont know where this girl is at mentally. She has a great personality and sense of humor. The second week of knowing each other, I told her "I'm finding it difficult to balance two people at the same time. I like you and want to give you more effort." Shes like "I like you too, I was busy and I was trying to give you space." I told her "I don't want to waste your time...because we dont talk...hang out...and im sexual." and she took it lightly and made a joke and told me not to rush it if im not ready. I dont think she knew what I was talking about or what she thought of that statement. What do you think she would think of that?
After my statement to her, she tries to communicate more (by saying gm to me once) and I ignore her for 2 days and get back to her. She doesnt ask where ive been, etc. She's had a fun packed day. Then she invites me out (1st time) and I decline and tell her tomorrow. Then while we're planning the time I tell her Ill let her know but I didn't and I didn't apologize. She didnt make any contact until over a week later saying happy holidays. I responded same to you miss. She said nothing more. Then she disappeared, unfriended me online. Ive been dating other women believe me but that woman confuses me. She's not clingy like I assumed she would be, or overly emotional. She didn't have sex with me like I wanted on our first two dates. We would touch then kiss but she never took off her clothes or frenched me. I got a hj at least on the second. But she wouldn't have sex with me. So im wondering if there is a gap in my game? I haven't spoken to her at all in 3 months.