I am meeting up with an old friend in another country to spend the weekend (really only like 24 hrs) with her since we are both making stops there. After messaging back and forth with plenty of IOI's. She asked if I have places for us to go and see. I gave her a good answer and she says, Ok I'll let you lead.

Not expecting any more messages until we meet up , I wake up to about 20 different ones. They all say things like. We have to eat here because......,and we HAVE to go A,b,c, etc. and different variations of that. As well as, you have to get plenty of pics of me and "dress nice for me"

Totally flipped the switch from I want to F*** your brains out messages to this.

I know when traveling everyone wants to do certain things and you can't always make it work, but how do I still stay in control without coming off as an asshole.

Is this shit test to see I stay in control and assert my dominance?

Obvious she is into and will give it up to you.

It might be a little bit of a test, she says she will follow you but then gives you a listen of stuff she wants to do or see. Just take control and lead, map out a way to see as much of the stuff she wants to see but in the order you want to see them.