Hey guys, I'm going out tonight; trying to sarge one of my female friends, now I know it's naughty, but in the interest of giving you full disclosure I should say that she is one of my (loose) friend's ex-girlfriend.

So the specifics are: We've known each other for quite a while (4 years) though we've never really talked much or been close, she was one of my exes girlfriends. We've recently started chatting a lot (every second day) and we are hitting it off. She's invited me to a party tonight, ad her ex is going to be there, so anything i do have the be really under the radar and low key; since i don't want to start a fight/scene.

We've got comfort, rapport and we've seen each other naked, we haven't had sex or done anything physically (first time we saw each other naked was at a party where we both had partners, who btw also was naked. Second time was because i was stripping) I feel like there's attraction, though she hides it, but it could also just be that she is trying to piss of her jealous ex.

But how should I proceed with this? If i figure out tonight that her motive is revenge or some other troublesome thing I might decide it's not worth my time, though I generally don't mind a little trouble so.

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No matter how much cats fight, there always seem to be plenty of kittens. ~Abraham Lincoln

Because i can.

wow that does seem like quite a troublesome issue you got.

what i would suggest is to try gaming a little with some other people there and generally have a good time. If the situation comes up be-friend the bothersome ex's just for peace of mind sake.

If you want to escalate into something physical with this girl it would have to come from you unless she does something open at the party in which case the thought of a scene in front of an ex would just be that.

Tease her and show her you won't chase her around be assertive in your actions

Good Luck

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Dranzer

Great advice, especially since I more or less specialize in teasing, did what you said and we have a casual date set up at my place.

Thanks man

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No matter how much cats fight, there always seem to be plenty of kittens. ~Abraham Lincoln

Because i can.