Hey, I'm a lurker. I suppose a rAFC guy. I'm married. Is it even possible for married guys to use this stuff - IE: not just do a great job sarging their own wives, but also pick up girls on the side? Cuz cheating is taboo, right? I'm always hung up with approaching girls, that they might give me away, so the game does not even start. But I also feel that if I can't get into certain techniques (like have options, so my wife does not hold my nuts) I have to actually have girls on the side.

I think responses that just accuse me of wanting to cheat are not really useful.

Responses that give me some help to negotiate the fine line between being a PUA and a cheater would be useful.