Sup, im a junior gaming this senior girl who I had a math class with last year, we started talking and i closed her number and hangout quick, didnt get kiss close first time because I had no way to isolate cuz she was with a friend and I was with my friend, after that whenever I saw her around school she always interested in me saying hi to me alot and hugging me alot. But shes more of a type of girl that has a lot of guy "friends" (which i dont really like but im trying to tap that so idc). So that was all during my sophmore year, i saw her around alot after I hungout with her but we didnt really click then so we didnt hangout again for awhile. But in my math class she was showing me some strong IOI's like staring at me alot and hugs etc, one time I even knew she was about to look at me when i looked away so I looked down and purpose and looked up real fast and she was eye balling me real hard, I smiled and made her laugh she knew i caught her lol.
So after all that the year ends and I lose contact from her, but then out of nowhere I found out one of my guy friends girlfriend was good friends with her and hungout with her alot, his girlfriend told him that the girl I was gaming said i was cute and stuff blah blah blah, and she said she was interested in me, so after that my friend tells me his girlfriend wants us to all go iceskating with the girl i was gaming. I go and btw hes more in the beta long term relationship and is kinda whipped, they come pick me up (normally i drive everywhere cuz i i b alpha like that) but it was whatever. He also doesnt really kiss her girlfriend openly or like game infront of people (pussy i know) so when we were iceskating I kinda felt the girl i was with didnt really want to put out because of my friend and his girlfriend werent really macking eachother at all, we talked alot and we were holding hands the whole time we were ice skating, I tried saying "oh im tried lets go rest over here" like in a dark area of the ice skating ring, to get a K close but even with the kino I was doing and all the positive vibes with IOI's she sent me I couldnt get it. It was the best iso i could get that night, like i kinda felt she didnt want to look like a whore infront of her friend (which is my homies girlfriend). And in terms of k close i pulled her close and was looking her in the eyes but she didnt seem to be down for the kiss. The whole time she was asking me alllot of more personal questions, like more if she was looking for a boyfriend rather than hookup. after all this he drives us home and drops off his girlfriend and her friend (Which is the girl im gaming) and we hug and
she says" oh yea hit me up im down to kickit again, and I was like" yeah text me and ill hit you up. "
So they left and she never texted back, should I hit her back up? This happened a month or two ago and she goes to a school next to mine, to me she kind of seemed like not trying to hookup that night but looking for more of a boyfriend that goes to her school. (you know childish shit to dhv infront of other kids in school to be popular) not gonna lie, I am very good looking and groomed, well in shape and popular so I know none of that is issue (shes like a hb8). I also want to mention were both mexican and have the same last names so i dont know if she was wierded out by that at all haha (i personally dont give a fuck).
So yeah, should I hit her back up? I wanna tap that. Possibly relationship if we chill more and I get into her (shes pretty chill and high value)
I texted her before back in my sophmore year but i really fucking hate texting so im really uninterested in it so i always forget to text back or text within a reasonable time because she always texted me when i was busy or doing shit
Thanks !
You gotta be a alpha and text her first (dont know what it is but some girls REFUSE to text first) make it short and set up something 1 on 1, you need to get her 1 on 1 to get her guard down, if she goes out with u and her friends again shes going to put the shield up because she doesn't want to look like a slut in front of her friends.