You need to learn how to escalate...
basically you want to lead and command the interaction like a boss
you sound like your doing everything else right..
i made a guide for how to escalate on my site, you can check it out
http://watchmeliveforever.com/2013/02/2 ... -bs-guide/
its really simple, the only hard part is getting over the "i dont wanna look bad" paranoia and your in there..
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wanna learn natural game?
im doing a post a day and explaining EVERYTHING at:
www.watchmeliveforever.com