Hey guys, I just started dipping my feet into the okcupid/POF dating thing to see if its any different. And it really is haha. I do just fine IRL but I figured it would at least be fun to message babes with dumb shit. Turns out, the hot ones are SCARCE and BITCHES and the only ones who message you first or message you back are very....well fed to say the least. Nothing against them, Im sure they are nice girls, I just cant do it haha. So do you guys find the same thing? Or is Saskatchewan, Canada just a dry place for online girls?

Any interesting openers for girls on POF who are HB8 or higher? I get a response rate of like 15-20% which is lower than I would like. I can link you to my profile if you want to critique my online set up?

Thanks guys

funny, vaguely insulting shit works.

reality is though is that a 10 will get hundreds of messages (all these are estimates)

a 9, likewise

an 8, dozens

a 7, probably 10 or 20 a day

a 6, 5 per day

a 5, 3 per day

a 4, 2 per day

Below that, sporadic. But even still, ALL GIRLS on there get decent traffic.

If you're looking at the trifecta of online dating, night game and day game, what online dating has going for it is ease. It is very easy, low stress, low skill level with high quantity. But competition is high (FAR more guys than girls) and quality is low.

Day game retains ease, and you have relatively little competition, especially when you get good. Quality varies. Quantity, unless you're in a good location (busy mall, school, etc) is low. There are virtually 0 guys doing it, versus however many girls in the location.

Night game requires the most practice of your game. Quality skews high, dependent on venue. Competition is very high (mostly men).

You have to choose your trade-offs.

Hey,

I just started an OkCupid profile as well. Ive found it to be a little chubby and desperate. I figured it couldn't hurt and it's an easy way to meet new girls even if only a few of them end up attractive. It would be cool to check out how you set up your profile. I recently watch an interview with Cajun, a PUA, who mentions that he kind of treats his profile as a joke which seems to get a good response. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y88OSDXPLoI

I'm working on my info at the moment and trying to portray myself, which I find to be the most difficult part.