Okay guys there's this girl that I met around a month ago, who I'm having a hard time understanding... Ill try ta keep this short.

We've gone for lunch multiple times, with IOIs everywhere, like laughing at everything I say, preening, long lasting eye contact, asking questions about my love life, etc. Also, it seems as though the chemistry in general is pretty great. I think the kino is lacking a little bit, but when contact is made she never moves away, and lets it linger.

Anyways, the problem I'm having is that we've been setting up dates, and for some reason she has cancelled last minute each time, asking to reschedule. That is, she's flaking out on more serious dates (not lunch), and I can't tell if she's just being nice, playing hard to get, and whether or not I should continue to be persistent or just take the hint.

Thanks!

Freeze her out and start gaming other girls you don't want oneitis, and that statement I bolded sounds like friend zone talk bottom line I wouldn't go to anymore lunch dates with her I'd freeze her out ask her out about 2 weeks later if she would like to go out, if she flakes again I'd be done and delete her number

I would try asking her out one last time. But when agreeing on a time and day for the date, in a playful way make her promise that she won't cancel this date again. She seems to agree to go on dates with you over and over again but might lack the courage to actually go out on a date at the last minute.

If you make her promise something like this, her guilt of flaking on you might outweigh her reluctance to go out on a date

If this simple technique fails to work, I guess you should move on. She might be interested but she is surely not worth your time and effort.

Well first off you should be attempting contact with other women but if you''re stubbornly trying to pursue her I''ll tell you what I think. It's hard to tell what's going on, whether she is busy or not, but regardless if she wanted to see you she'd find time to see you. You could, in a last minute attempt call her on blowing you off and tell her she's being disrespectful of your time but do you really want to be that insecure guy anyway?