Hey guys, I'll try not to make this too long but I wanna give you guys the full picture.

Im in college and this 10 lives beside me in my dorm. She's in my program and all my classes I started wheeling (what we in canada say to describe flirting and pursuing) at the start of the year when she had a boyfriend. They broke up temporarily and we fucked then they got back together. Once again they have broken up cause he cheated on her (this time seems for good), and I've fucked her about 10 times since. We get along really well and I wanna date her. She says she's not ready to date and wants to be single for awhile. She's told me really personal shit about her life like I know she's into me more then just a fuck-buddy.

She wants to "be single" so she gets wheeled by a bunch of guys and we both hook up with other people (I'm the only one she's fucking).

We're both single and hook up with other people but we usually end of fucking each other at the end of it.

My problem is do I still keep wheeling her and being cute with her when she wheels and hooks up with other guys or does it make me seem like a pussy? I should I be more of an alpha male and cut it off in hopes she'll miss me and want to be exclusive?

Best thing you could do is seek out other girls. If she is really into you, she will pursue you and want to escalate the relationship. If she isn't into you, you may be able to keep your fwb relationship going and enjoy it for what it is. Try to be extremely mature about the situation and keep your emotions to yourself. More importantly, think to yourself do you really, really want to get into a serious relationship at your age. Personally, I think that was the biggest mistake I made in my life and wish I had waited until I was in my mid thirties to do so. If there is someone at your age you think may be the one, chances are your perspective will change down the road (no matter what you may think now).

Wow thank you, that was actually a really informative and eye opening post. I appreciate it.