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PostPosted: Fri Feb 15, 2013 11:33 pm 
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To me, having sex is fun. Thing is, I have never slept with any girls beside my girlfriend. I'm not ready for any serious relationship at this moment, but I would still like to have sex with a girl who has the need.

I'm actually seeing this girl who is clearly attracted to me physically, I wanted to be in a relationship with her,
but things didn't work out. so right now I want nothing more than sex with her.

How do I start getting FWB? Any Ideas on how to deal with this girl? Do I just be straight forward with her and have a little talk about our relationship? Thanks in Advance


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PostPosted: Sat Feb 16, 2013 12:18 am 
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Do I just be straight forward with her and have a little talk about our relationship?
In short, yes.

Be aware, FWB isn't for everyone. You said you wanted a relationship with her, but it didn't work out? I'm not sure what that means, but it sounds like you had feelings for her. These feelings cannot exist in order for a FWB relationship to work.

How I bring it up is, I say I am just looking to have fun. Nothing serious, just a fun time. She'll get the hint. And it is up to her whether or not she is down for it. You can't really do anything about that. Don't promise a relationship in the future, don't try to play mind games. Be up front about it.

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PostPosted: Sat Feb 16, 2013 12:24 am 
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Do I just be straight forward with her and have a little talk about our relationship?
In short, yes.

Be aware, FWB isn't for everyone. You said you wanted a relationship with her, but it didn't work out? I'm not sure what that means, but it sounds like you had feelings for her. These feelings cannot exist in order for a FWB relationship to work.

How I bring it up is, I say I am just looking to have fun. Nothing serious, just a fun time. She'll get the hint. And it is up to her whether or not she is down for it. You can't really do anything about that. Don't promise a relationship in the future, don't try to play mind games. Be up front about it.
Hey thx for the reply. What I meant by it didnt work out is that after knowing her for a while, she doesnt seem to be the kind of girl who I want to have long term relationship with. But I am still physically attracted to to her. Some strong hints tells me that she is also physically attracted to me, but I'm sure she doesn't want anything serious with me either.


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PostPosted: Sat Feb 16, 2013 9:41 pm 
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