HI guys, it's been a real long time since I've been on the board. I was simply doing well with my game and even met a girl I liked a whole lot, we were serious for awhile...there were some issues with that relationship, but not worth getting into with this post.

So, I was back to my old tricks. First, I never liked the on-line thing. Yes, I did bang a bunch of girls from it, but I found it annoying and the talent, eh, and they wanted like serious bfs, and in my opinion the girls I met were gf material...I was doing better with traditional game, bot getting laid, and actually meeting someone I really liked...

I decided to take another stab on the on-line thing, because I was meeting a lot of psychos recently doing my tradtional thing. I banged two, one swedish one I liked enough to want to date, but then she got all weirded out because we banged on the first date, and she started looking for all these things wrong with me, blaming it on that I was not over my divorce !?!?!? First off, I am, second, I have no hang ups, these girls have hang ups when they see it on my profile...

Oh, I decided to go on a active person or sports type website, with the idea of meeting people that would be active...hell, even if I made a few friends that way it would be nice....So, I finally meet this 25 year old Japanese girl (I'm 38) and its going good. I play everything right, not too aggressive, we go out for my birthday, she gives me a nice card, I'm old enough to know when things are on and when there not, and this had been going so well. We had a great time at m birthday dinner, I even catch her looking back as I dropped her off etc. Then a few days later out of nowhere, she drops something about an old bf coming back to the scene to marry her ?!?!? Something was fishy, making a long story short, after a week or so, I get out of her she made it up. She had a problem that I was divorced, that I was tainted somehow. That I could never be happy, which those who are divorced know is farthest from the truth. I also have no kids. Now, I can understand if kids are in the picture, some people may not want to deal with anothers kids, but I don't have that issue.

I know some of this is immaturity due to her age, and maybe even culturally, but I much rather have someone tell me I'm ugly (which I'm not), than someone not want to date me because I was married once. Oh and this chick was a model, smoking hot!!

This is one of the things I don't like or never liked about on-line dating, there's too many boxes you can check off....I always felt when you meet someone in person, you have a better chance of creating someothing; I mean how many times have we heard, he really wasn't my type, but he was just so sweet when.....

My last girlfriend, was, still is estranged from her husband, considers herself separated, but kind of really isn't...I would've never met her on-line, we met and had that connection in person.

So, I like to be an honest guy, I don't like to bullshit, I don' think it gets you anywhere. I'm glad I'm divorced, so is my ex-wife. We have no drama, between us, but if I am going to continue on this site, and I think I'm done with it after awhile or any site....should I simply not show that I'm divorced. Ironically, if you're my age, or maybe a little older and you are NOT divorced or been in a really serious relationship, then there is something really wrong with you, which is the reality.

So, you guys are all the real players out there....do I keep that bit of info out, don't bring it up, and if something serious does come about then drop that bomb? At that point they'd be two vest into it anyway... plus let's face it...I just really wanted to NAIL this 25 year old Japanese model....

thoughts.

j.