When I first came on this forum I had a simple insecurity, it had to be with me being Brown (Indian) and attracting women of other races in the US (particularly White). In my head I thought that women in the US would not want anything but White men or Black men and that all other races of men will get laid before me because of race alone. This was YEARS back.

Well, fast forward to now, I am having more success with girls of all races. For months, I did not even think about my insecurity because I was doing better than I expected. I got told I was handsome, went on some dates, made out with some girls, and of course you guys read my sheet for 2012 about the girls I had been with that year, progress progress progress.

I have had great amounts of success here in the US that I know for a fact my ethnicity or race or whatever is not a disability.

I was STRONGLY convinced that my insecurity had died out and was a closed chapter.

Then December came around, two friends of mines wanted me to come to Sweden with them. I read online that women there love Black men and White men but nothing about men of my color. Even heard that it is almost unheard of to see Brown men score there, maybe it was due to the lack of Brown men there, who knows?

Well, to make a long story short, I turned down the trip but had to lie and tell my friends I was busy. Also I heard how in Europe racism is a bigger deal, people are more nationalistic, and all that jack.

I have thought about whether or not to pursue my goal of dating women of different nationalities but that thought alone harbors itself in my head.

Because I have never heard of Indian men hooking up with women in France, Sweden, Italy, Spain, or Russia for example, I get it in my head that it must be because women there are racists and all that. At times I feel stupid for thinking this way but this thought gets such a strong grip on my head that I end up getting miserable over it. I turn into the kind of American that has the whole worldview that America is better and the rest of the world is backwards and stupid even though I don't want to have this belief. I lose my interest in traveling to another country simply because of the thought that I can't get laid in a given country due to my race.....

It is like if I travel to another country I have the thought in my mind that I better get laid there and if I can't get laid there then it isn't worth it.

Long story short I want to go from dating American women to dating women of other nationalities but feel that my race/ethnicity will be a major barrier, as a result I turn bitter and somewhat hateful because of it,

do I need to seek counseling?

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Hey buddy,

from your post I assume that you have quite success with women already. The reason I am replying to this is that I am European myself living in UK at the moment and I know quite a bit about European women and racism in Europe.

I would have to disagree about the high level of racism, particularly against indian race. To be honest, the population of indians in Europe is not very high apart from UK. To be honest, I would almost seek it as an advantage in the sense, that lets say in eastern Europe, you would have to go miles to find an indian, which makes you quite an exotic find. If you are well maintained and groomed guy, I would certainly not worry about that.

Now, I have never been to US, only heard that people are very friendly in general, especially girls. Haha, UK girls are on the opposite side of the scale, so dont be surprised if you meet some resistance, thats just a default here. You know, in easter Europe is predominantly white, so unless you are in capitals, you might get curious looks, but thats all good, its attention after all.

I say, face your fears and insecurities, go and travel if you can and find out for yourself. The worst that can happen is that you get rejected, but at least you tried. If nothing, it will boost your confidence knowing that you went for it and tried.

BTW, Swedish chicks are well hot. Shame Im into brunets! LOL

interesting, so do you know any countries in Europe for sure where an Indian guy with good looks and game could do just as well if not better than a guy that is lets say Black or Hispanic?

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