So there is this girl that randomly messaged me on fb a couple months back. I'm not sure how she got my name but I figured she was my crazy ex making fake profiles which she had done before. Anyways we started messages and eventually texting. I wasn't exactly an asshole but was pretty short and she kept messages, and I told her I was too busy to meet. Eventually we met and it went well. She continued to text me. Sometimes all day. I'd respond but not right away and still kept my alpha attitude during the date (calling her out, negging, but also having a a playful fun time).

So I asked her a couple times to hang out since, and generally the day of so sometimes she'd be busy. I asked her yesterday and she said she was going to a party and then out of town, but asked me about monday, which I wasn't sure. I don't want a text penpal, and she does seem interested but I'd kind of like to know . I told her yesterday to text me when she gets back (implies not everyday) so she responded oh you don't wanna text me anymore . I said, the better way to look at it , is that I wanna see you next week. I'm free tuesday.

I'm debating should I send a v-day text. Keep in mind this is one of a bunch of other girls I'm talking too, but I'm prefer not to just get rid of her asap. Any advice ?

So actually she texted me

"omg you didn't text me for vday"

I told her it was funny cause I was going to do it. She was complaining a little so I rather than be like (its your fault cause you said you were busy) I just said so are we hanging out tuesday or not? I figured enough bs she has a bunch of days to make herself free and she said something like she couldn't commit cause she didn't know when she was getting back in town.

I'm debating asking her if she is just looking for a text buddy? Bad move? I know most guys on her would say just drop her but sometimes there can be misinterpretation in texts.

What do you guys think?>