Some may say I'm too honest. Maybe I am. Yesterday afternoon, among a series of other sensitive questions, my girlfriend asked me if I miss the sex with my exes. To which I hesitantly answered yes. But what idiot wouldn't miss sex with an ex, unless it was bad sex? I think that's just stupid. Anyway.

Today she tells me she's not the girl for me. That if she lost weight, I wouldn't love her anymore. That I don't enjoy the sex with her as much as with my exes. Completely wrong. That is her premise for her BREAKING UP WITH ME, even though in reality, she's the best I've ever had. In short, she's incredibly insecure. I get angry and tell her that I in fact want to be with her, and if she's the one that has doubts, then she needs to think about it. And I stormed away.

Given the circumstances, you might say I could have done more to show her I want her. But I feel like I gave her a lot already. Sent flowers to her work, drove all the way to her place in the middle of the night, and more. I've already given her too much, and she still feels insecure.

Thoughts?

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Before she can respect you, you need to respect yourself.

she mite want you to chase nothing wrong with that. chase a lil , if no go, i'd say let her go

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If I was ya man, baby, you'd
Never worry bout what I do
I'd be coming home back to you
Every night, doin' you right

There is nothing wrong with being honest, but me personally I use little more tact. When gf brings up exes, I response with "Like everyone else, I have some great memories with some of my exes and cherish the time I spent with them, but that is over."

Good tact. Noted.

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Before she can respect you, you need to respect yourself.

Being honest is good, but there are just some things you don't say to your girlfriend

Missing sex with your exes is one of those things.

this, seriously, what in the world were you thinking? How would you feel if your girlfriend told you she missed getting plowed by other dudes? we all have had past girls, past sexual relationships, and everyone likes sex. does not mean we should ever ever feel the need to bring it up or tell your girl you miss having sex with your past girls...