Ive been working on my game but I think i've hit a sticking point/avenue to improve; hopefully someone can help me along!

So, after interacting with countless girls and some nice closes, I realize that I can now tell alot of subtle body language from girls (and guys). However, I cant induce the body language, like i cant really turn on a girl's attraction switch--what I feel like I'm doing is just finding girls who're already semi-attracted to me and working on them further, eventually closing them. I'm not making girls attracted to me.

Its kind of like being able to grasp opportunities to a certain extent but not being able to create opportunities in terms of attraction. I'm pretty good at Opening and just fluff talking, but after a minute or so of interaction I can tell whether a girl's gonna be successful or not based on her initial response/body language. I've been giving up on these girls and moving along.

How can I attract more girls to me-- should I spend more effort on the set (seem like try-hard or forcing it a little) or is it just a numbers game? I feel like I'm giving up on several really pretty sets because theres no initial attraction but I want to generate attraction in them.

Would social proof help?

A tangential issue is dealing with sets where 1 girl is showing interest while the other 2/3 are more ambivalent. I should try isolate the one thats interested by saying hey im going to borrrow HB A for a bit are you all fine with it? The problem is that they're not really interested in me.

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Well...opening and closing sets where the HB has intrinsic attraction to you isn't hard at all. It's like giving a child candy, you already know they want it.

You're beginning to figure out that, you have the ability to close sets (from ones that find you attractive) which is good because you're gaining self-confidence...so now you're asking how you attract the ones that aren't initially attracted to you....

Well that, my friend, is the difference between a PUA and a good PUA. But in retrospect, it's really not what else you need to do because what you're doing already attract women. What you need to do is calibrate better, a good way to do this is to talk to women of different culture or even races. If you can hold animated conversations with all types of women - black, white, rich, poor, studious, workaholic etc... then you will start to see that different things attract different types of women, and you will be able to use the right conversation and body language to calibrate to her level.