Hey,

Most of my posts on here this past year were about my oneitis... The thing seemed to drag on and on...

So now that I finally got rid of her, she tries to get back in...

We had the same social circle (they all dropped her for a while) where she is now back in (inviting us to do fun stuff, including me) and just now she sends me this weird text:

"Hey, I don't want to be friends but I do want us all to hang out and have fun! There are no hard feelings!"

This is the short translation, it was a text of a half page in my own language...

I told her I agreed and dropped the conversation!

Two questions:
1. What is she up to?

2. Did I handle this well?

Im just gonna throw my 2cents in here. I don't remember reading your other posts, so I don't know your background with this girl. Butttt, if a girl tells me something like what she told you, about not wanting to be friends, but still want to use me to hang out, I would be like, fuck off, literally. Why let yourself be used? You got your own friends that you can hangout with right? Why hang with someone that doesn't want to be your friend? Especially if she is/used to be your one-itis, only more reason to ignore her. So ignore her and if possible show her your having fun without her, I hope/think in the future she will realize she has done you wrong and will be sorry about it, thats when you will feel good.

Exactly my point! Whatever happend between me and her doesn't matter! I never fell for the let's be friends trap! However, these are my friends and they dropped her becaused they valued me more! I can't force them to all hate her, this is not their problem! So I just said ok, fine!

Yes exactly, let your friends decide for themselves if they want to hang with her or not, and you just be you and have fun all the time! You're going with the right mentality! Im guessing she wanted to hang out with others or something, and it didn't work out and now she wants back with you guys.. She messed up haha! Try to make her earn your friendship/trust etc again, and don't sweat to much about her